Coming of age in the 60’s: The Children’s Day by Michiel Heyns

Small town South Africa. The 1960’s. Rules govern social engagement. Black and white, Afrikaner and English, richer and poorer. Even in the smallest of towns a hierarchy of social stratification evolves and is reinforced with a blend of gossip and charity. And then there are those most ineffable mysteries of life: love, sex and death.

childrensSuch is the context of The Children’s Day by Michiel Heyns. At the heart of this Bildungsroman is Simon, a sensitive, intelligent boy charting his way through the machinations of childhood in the dusty environs of Verkeerdespruit. He is keenly aware that he is living in the heart of nowhere. But the books that are such a vital companion to this only child cannot even begin to answer the questions that his interactions with classmates and the curious behaviour of the adults around him continually raise. Simon is left with the impression that he is trying to put together a jigsaw puzzle without all the pieces.

The novel opens in the modest, relatively speaking, metropolis of Bloemfontein, where Simon, now 15, is attending Wesley College, a “second-rate” Methodist private school. The occasion of a tennis match between the boys of Wesley College and a nearby technical high school on a stifling hot December day in 1968 unspools a series of flashbacks that reach six years into the past and gradually move forward. Simon’s reflections are triggered by the unexpected, unwelcome appearance of a former classmate on the visiting school’s team – the awkward, epilectic Afrikaner Fanie van den Bergh.

From the time he first arrives in Verkeerdespruit, Fanie is a curiousity. His fits alarm his classmates and teachers, while his inarticulate, easy-going nature sets Simon off balance. He regards Fanie with a measure of contempt to which the latter appears oblivious. Yet  Fanie is a constant source of surprise. When Steve, in his tight jeans and white t-shirt, roars into town astride the magnificent Matchless G8 bringing a touch of heroic glamour to streets of the sleepy village, attracting the adoration of the boys,and the fluttering of female hearts, it is Fanie who disappears on the back of his bike. The fallout resulting from Steve’s arrival marks the advent of Simon’s awareness that the world is full of joys and dangers that the adults around him allude to with the most cryptic references. Frustratingly alert to the innuendos around him, Simon is delightfully naive as only a child of the pre-internet era can be. I remember it well myself. As Simon admits:

“Though I was probably quicker than my contemporaries at fitting together apparently unrelated observations, I was hampered in my deductions by an almost complete ignorance of sexual matters. I had arrived, for instance, at the conclusion that kissing was both a much sought-after pleasure for oneself and a much-ridiculed weakness in others, and that adults were too old for it and children too young.”

By observing the parade of adults that passes through his home town, Simon’s glimpses of the outside world become broader, if not necessarily clearer. A teacher who takes harsh discipline in the classroom a step too far is sent away, a pretty young girl he assumes is a special friend abandons him for the school jock, a woman with a shocking past appears and breaks the heart of one of his favourite teachers. And then there is Trevor with his dyed hair and pink shirts who shocks everyone by shaking up the life of the stuttering shy bachelor postmaster and his mother, briefly redesigning the beehived heads of the local women before being run out of town once speculations about the true nature of his friendship with the postmaster spread. Again Simon is perplexed, though it is Trevor who first implies that he sees in the boy a likely kindred spirit. The only outlet he has for the really “big” questions that trouble him are his Saturday afternoons at the local soda fountain with Betty “The Exchange”. The cynical, unfortunately chinless, telephone operator entertains Simon’s queries but confuses him as much as she informs him – children, after all, are only allowed so much enlightenment in this era.

It is Fanie who, in the end, stands to call attention to the missing puzzle piece that Simon has been holding in his hand all along.

I have an affection for strong coming of age/coming out stories. This is one. Sexually Simon is a slow learner, a boy who is less in touch with his body than the more viscerally grounded if intellectually dimmer Fanie. He over thinks the world even though he encounters more than one adult male who recognizes in him an inclination that he has, at an early age, no context for. Today with the ubiquity of queer conversation, imagery, access to internet, resources and young adult novels that explore queer themes, it may be hard to imagine how isolated a child could be growing up in earlier decades. Some claim this is an argument for censorship or against realistic sex education in the school system. But that is a spurious argument. One could still grow up LGBT in a vacuum. Or worse in denial. Many of us did.

I grew up in the 1960’s and 70’s in conservative rural Alberta. My parents, like Simon’s were liberal, but, like my peers, there were so many facts of life we did not understand and would not have dared to ask. Especially if there was any inclination that our own sense of self was off the norm. Long before one could retreat to the wisdom of Wikipedia, our resources were limited. I will never forget when the word “faggot” started to appear on our radar, probably as 10 or 11 year-olds. We would scurry to our dictionaries to find only “A bundle of sticks or an unpleasant woman”. Somehow we knew that couldn’t be right!

With The Children’s Day Heyns captures all of the curious confusion of growing up smart, bookish and not quite fitting in. And he does so with a warm, understated humour. Through his perceptive, yet naive, narrator the wonder and mystification, shame and humiliation of adolescence are evoked with remarkable resonance. Like many coming of age tales this was also a debut novel. But first published in 2002 when the author was in his late 50s, this novel also marked the debut of second career as a writer and translator – one that is still going strong – an inspiration to the rest of us in mid-life with writerly aspirations.

Author: roughghosts

Literary blog of Joseph Schreiber. Writer. Reader. Editor. Photographer.

13 thoughts on “Coming of age in the 60’s: The Children’s Day by Michiel Heyns”

  1. Have you read JM Coetzee’s Boyhood: Scenes from Provincial Life? Tolkien was born in Bloem and spent his first three years there. Also, Verkeerdespruit is almost as good a name as Allesverloren.


    1. I haven’t read Boyhood but would like to. So much of this book reminded me of my own childhood, especially how completely naive we were. In that way it could have been set in any conservative small town/rural setting. In the earliest TV shows I remember married couples never shared a bed and if you were an oldest or only child you were on the vanguard, figuring out the world piece by piece.

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      1. I have that one too. I also liked Disgrace, as you would probably expect. Difficult and dark, yes, but intended to unsettle. I can imagine how it would be especially difficult for you.

        This book, Children’s Day, touches on some pretty taboo subjects but with the naivety of the narrator it strikes a really interesting tone. And of course it is funny.

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  2. You really do make me wish I’d paid more attention to SA literature when I was there, and resolve to seek it out now that I’ve left. It’s funny how much more appealing it seems now that I can read it as an outsider – I’m going to try and hunt this one down.

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    1. Distance is an interesting perspective. I tend to read works from other countries, often in translation. South Africa and the Balkans are interest areas because of people I’ve known from those areas and the political upheavals of the past few decades. Canada seems dull by comparison. But if I was away I would probably read more from “home”.


  3. Thank you very much for this review. It’s great to find a reader who gets it — and to find confirmed my suspicion that coming of age is much the same the world over, be it Verkeerdespruit or Alberta.

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    1. Thank you in return for such a wonderful read. With Simon you strike that perfect balance between being perceptive and being isolated that I remember so well. I look forward to reading more of your work but it can be very hard to source here in Canada. I have a few titles on my hit list for my upcoming visit to South Africa.


    1. Thanks Penny. This is the first Michiel Heyns book I’ve read, but I have a couple others including Lost Ground on my shelves (I know that situation). His books can be difficult and expensive to find so I have a few including A Sportful Malice on my wishlist for my visit to S. Africa. I am currently reading Agaat which he translated, but thick books intimidate me so it will take a while. 🙂

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  4. Great review. This sounds genuinely interesting and your review really made me want to go out and pick it up right now! I really enjoy coming-of- age novels and I’ve read little from South Africa. I’m looking forward to reading childhood in a South African setting. Will definitely be reading this at some point.


    1. Thanks. I have a fondness for South African lit. This book is fairly easy to find but many books that interest me can be very difficult to obtain. I’m visiting the country soon so I expect to come back with lots of books!


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