yak qat̤rah ḳhūn ho ke palak se ṭapak paṛā
qiṣṣah yih kuchh huʾā dil-e ġhufrāñ-panāh kā
That was a drop of blood, which fell from the lashes.
So the story goes, of the heart sheltered by forgiveness.
– Mir Taqi Mir (Divan-e Avval: I.42.4) pic.twitter.com/tWMc6FEKa5
— Ranjit Hoskote (@ranjithoskote) January 1, 2020
When I wrote my end of year post on New Year’s Eve, a wave of end of year gloom, fueled in part by media focus on the currents state of the world and a sense of anxious pessimism colouring the future outlook, for myself personally and the planet. When I look back over the past twelve months or so I feel fatigued. There seems to be so much I could not get a hold of—the volume of editing for 3:AM, coping with my son’s addiction, managing my own grief processing and mental health challenges.So, unable to set boundaries or take control I sought to escape. After a five week trip to India in February, I went back in late October. One should never confuse the desire to travel with a desperation to run away from loneliness and a failure to feel at home, but I suspect that drives many of us who are perpetually restless. I’ve only been back for a month and already I find myself watching planes take off from the airport across the city and wish I too was leaving again. It’s a financial and practical impossibility at the moment, and I don’t even have a destination in mind, but a part of me is always mentally packing bags and thinking about getting away.
From this vantage point, I keep thinking about everything I did not do this year, all the bookish goals unmet, outlines unsketched, words unwritten. I made a few forays toward a fledgling project, some with promise, inspired in large part by essays I was reading. I fiddled with a little poetry, published a couple of pieces and wrote one major critical essay and a personal essay commissioned for a publication sometime this year.
However, sometimes it feels like my efforts fell short—for two months I even battled a crippling inability to open a book—but, in truth, 2019 held many moments of literary magic. I visited Bombay for the first time early in the year to meet up with poet and cultural critic, Ranjit Hoskote, and also ended up meeting Priya Sarukkai Chabria—a translator, novelist and poet whose name was new to me. By the end of the year I would come to treasure her friendship and belief in me as a writer. In November I spent several days with her and her husband in Pune where she arranged for me to give a talk on book reviewing and, the next day, meet up with several poets who have now become part of my expanding network. I’m learning to trust her instincts.
In February I also made my second trip to Calcutta where, once again, I taught a class at the Seagull School of Publishing (a session which has, in itself, added to my circle of friends) and I had the distinct honour of engaging in a public conversation with Edwin Frank, the founding editor of NYRB Classics. As usual, several other creative personalities were gathered at Seagull, but an unexpected delight was to spend a few days with Italian poet Franca Mancinelli who happened to be in the city on a residency. It was a busy, inspiring week in a city I’ve come to love.
On both of this year’s India visits I spent time in Kochi where my dear and long-time friend Mini lives, now that she has returned home after many years in Dubai. I made my first trip to Nepal to catch up with a Nepali friend who used to live in my home town. My closest queer friend, a graduate in theratre arts and probably the only person who understands my own complicated queerness, I miss the long conversations over coffee we used to have. Kathmandu is a long way to go to catch up. But worth it!
I also finally got to Jaipur, a city I will have to go back to—magical energy, stunning architecture and a climate as long as I avoid the really hot months, suited to my natural desert temperament. (I live in a dry, albeit cold, environment.) I spent two days with Saudamini, another creative spirit I have known for a number of years, who was an enthusiatic tour guide. And together we found in the bedrooms of the Nahargarh Fort interior design perfect for book lovers!
On my third and final day in Jaipur, I enjoyed another serendipitous encounter with a Twitter follower who reached out when she heard I was on my way. A curator at the City Palace Museum, it turns out that we have a mutual friend in Bombay, because, of course, even in cities with millions of people, it is a small world. Apurna and I enjoyed a wonderful lunch together, strangers only for the first few minutes. Which, in itself, is one of the things that brings me back to India.
The other critical anchor for me on this most recent Indian adventure, was the opportunity to get to know another Twitter contact, someone unknown to me on my first visits whom I “met” through non-Indian readerly friends and who lives (at least for now) in Bangalore where I was based. A writer and reader with impeccable taste (that is, corresponding with my own), JP and I spent a lot of time drinking coffee and scouring bookstores on Church Street as one must when in that city. Last, but not least, I went to the Bangalore Lit Fest with a couple of students from my first year teaching at Seagull. Had I found the courage to venture to Delhi, I would have connected with even more former students, but I still find the city daunting. Someday, I will go.
For now I know that I need to take the time to drift through all the memories I gathered in India this year. There are so many that they sometimes feel like they are crammed to the back of a closet, waiting to see the light but too much, too confusing to deal with. They are filled with joy, pain and curiosity. I was in the country during the election campaign when Pakistan was bombed, I returned home as the controversial Transgender Protection Act was passed—something that reminds me how precarious my own travels are, no matter where I go because my outward appearance only provides a superficial security—and now I watch the citizenship protests roll out.
My attraction to India is complicated. I am not an Indian, I am not involved with or married to an Indian. Friendships aside I have no need to go there. But what I have gained over the course of my visits is a real life validation of my worth as a writer. Something no editing engagement, publication or Twitter chatter can equal. However, it inevitably makes me feel like I come home to a creative and emotional void. I hit waves of loneliness that turn back into bitterness and resentment.
Aimed at myself.
Aimed at my city.
Aimed at my life.
Once again, it serves to accomplish little more than to further absorb my creative energy. So, as 2020 begins, I am aware that, if I am ever going to be able to meet the writerly goals I have set for myself, I have to start with, strangely enough, forgiveness. It is the only protection against anger and resentment.
So that, then is my primary literary goal for 2020. Everything I read and write will flow from there.
8 thoughts on “My literary goals for 2020, or rather, where they begin”
Yes. We wish you well on this journey x
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You seem at your happiest when you are with like minded friends. Do you have similar connections in the area where you live, that can help sustain you?
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I’ve never found the same kind of connections at home. My friendships are quite casual. This is a city where you either fit in and still have networks going back to childhood and youth, or you never quite find your footing. That’s what always leads to the loneliness hangover after travel.
Sometimes a place and its people can speak to our souls, even if we aren’t from there and have no obvious connection with it. Scotland of course, as my homeland, calls strongly to me all the time – even more so as I get older. But despite never having visited either country, I feel a massive link with both France and Russia via their culture and literature. Despite the hardships of the year, it sounds like you have had some huge positives in your visits to India and have some wonderful friends there. It’s hard to always hang onto these because sometimes the negatives seem more powerful. Maybe write about your experiences – try to crystallise them and keep them strong to get you through harder times? Anger and resentment is the obvious response when the world is burning and crumbling but we humans do keep on keeping on. And be assured you have plenty of virtual friends here in the blogosphere. x
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I imagine the pull of other places meets some need. My father was a Russophile all his life—he and my mother did visit once.. It was not a popular affection, especially during the Cold War, but he was never one to take the popular road!
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You had such an interesting year and I’d live go seagull books they produce such interesting books but far above my inferior review technique
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Thanks, Stu. Should you ever get to Calcutta (who knows?) be sure to give Seagull a call and visit their beautiful office and store.